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Post by Shymmex on Dec 17, 2015 15:23:06 GMT
Shymmex , Before I comment my reserve (lol), what is your definition of a traditional African husband, why do you think the traditional African wife role is important and how do you think they should both SUCCESSFULLY collaborate? I will post a reply to this when I get home.
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Post by Her Highness on Dec 18, 2015 20:54:43 GMT
Shymmex , Before I comment my reserve (lol), what is your definition of a traditional African husband, why do you think the traditional African wife role is important and how do you think they should both SUCCESSFULLY collaborate? I will post a reply to this when I get home. You never reach home abi?
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Post by Shymmex on Dec 19, 2015 0:17:57 GMT
I will post a reply to this when I get home. You never reach home abi? Loool. I was going to do it yesterday but I slept off. I'll do it now.
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Post by Shymmex on Dec 19, 2015 0:42:36 GMT
@ Her Highness, The Senegalese African renaissance monument above represent the traditional African family structure - with the father, mother, and child. From the image, you can see the father as the protector of the family, the authority/head, and the one to cater to most of the family's needs. While the mother would be his support system and the nucleus of their union would be predicated on loving/catering-to their offspring together. Everything else is at the peripheral of such a union.
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Post by Her Highness on Dec 19, 2015 2:28:44 GMT
^^^ Shymmex & Honorebu, what do you think causes breakdown in that type of family structure and/or where do you think it occurs? i.e when women tries to lead or when a man tries to sail a ship alone? Even in a ship, a captain needs his/her quarter master.
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Post by Shymmex on Dec 19, 2015 2:32:56 GMT
^^^ Shymmex & Honorebu , what do you think causes breakdown in that type of family structure and/or where do you think it occurs? i.e when women tries to lead or when a man tries to sail a ship alone? Even in a ship, a captain needs his/her quarter master. I think most marriages fall apart due to interference external forces and societal influences.
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Post by Her Highness on Dec 19, 2015 2:36:59 GMT
I agree with you. I know you prefer that individualistic lifestyle.
I don't understand why Nigerians think having family interference strengthens their marriage even though most Nigerian marriages are unhappy.
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Post by Honorebu on Dec 19, 2015 2:45:32 GMT
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