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Post by Her Highness on Dec 24, 2015 0:53:57 GMT
Been natural for 5 years. Will be posting the advantages and disadvantages of being natural. Being natural is totally an option, it's not an excuse to condemn or look down on our perming sisters Transitioned in 2009 Went natural in 2010 So far, i love it!
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Post by Her Highness on Dec 24, 2015 1:12:15 GMT
14 Reasons To Go Natural
Source: CurlyNikki Want A ChangeThis could be from having straight hair all the time to wanting a different look. If you are looking for a change, you will definitely get that with natural hair. If you are tired of the same style over and over, going natural can give you endless options to cater to that change you are looking for. Debunks European And Western Standards Of Beauty
When I was younger, I was taught that straight hair was the standard for beauty and poise. Kinky and coily hair was not accepted as beautiful, lovely, or appropriate. But now... natural hair is everywhere! Companies want to be part of the movement, models and designers are for it, and the standard of “what is beautiful” is changing. Straight hair, what? Straight hair, who? Healthier For You
Nothing against relaxers and other processing methods, but harsh chemicals are just not healthy for you. No matter how the box is sugar-coated with added oils, herbs, and cute pictures, it’s still a harsh chemical that can affect your health in the long run. Embrace New Growth
Gone are the days of dreading new growth. If you're looking to achieve and retain length, you will rejoice when new growth shows up! Hair Versatility
You can be 4 different women in one week! Flat Ironed Beauty, Afrostatic Diva, Lioness Blowout and Fierce Female Twistout. With the right care, natural hair can really give you any style you are feeling for any day you want. Flexibility for previous Lifestyle Conflicts
For all of you swimmers, exercisers, and yoga masters, this would be a great change for you. The one thing that you are going to do is sweat when you exercise. Yes, that’s surely inevitable. Natural hair can definitely give you the versatility to wash daily or style your hair for exercise. Also, if you are on-the-go, going natural has great options for styling: wash n go, afro, bun, etc. You Will Really Learn Your Hair
When I was relaxed, I never took care of my hair. The reason was not because I did not feel like it or didn't know how, but because I had someone there who could just do it for me. Once I went natural, there was no salon I went to that knew how to do natural hair (probably have changed now or could have just been my city). So I was forced to really learn my hair. When you go natural, you will learn that not everyone can do natural hair. Not everyone will know how to even care for natural hair. So it will be up to you to learn your hair. Who better to do your hair, than you? Be your own hair guru! Time And Money Saver
Other than saving money on going to the salon weekly, going natural can save you lots of money. Unless you are a product junkie or you literally have a wash day full of oils after herbs after treatments after other treatments, having natural hair is not that costly. All you need is a shampoo and/or co-wash, conditioner, leave-in, styler, and bobby pins (lots and lots of them). You may have other products depending on your styling and hair care preference, but that’s basically it. Pride In Afrotastic History
If you are into the history of natural hair, then going natural would definitely be for you. Personally, I love the history and the timeline of Black Hair and how it evolved through history to the present time. Having natural hair makes me feel like I’m part of a great history. My hair has awesome roots (pun intended) and that makes me so proud to be Afrotastic in my own right and history. Great Sense In Natural Community
When you become natural, you will inherit a bunch of sisters, aunties, mommas, and even brothers. The natural hair community is very welcoming and full of love when it comes to newbie naturals and those who are considering going natural. You can join natural hair groups on Facebook, chat in forums, add your comments and opinions on natural hair online publications, or even check out the family atmosphere of natural hair on other social media sites. Having natural hair comes with family who are willing to aid you in your healthy hair journey. Inspires The Next Generation
Your little ones already want to be just like mommy! Your daughters, nieces, and grand-babies are definitely looking at you to see what is important to you. When you embrace your natural hair, they will see that natural hair signifies grace and beauty. They will learn to love their own curls, coils, kinks, and naps from the beginning of their lives. Help them take the first step in loving their hair by seeing you love your own natural hair. Controls Our Economics And Businesses
Seriously though! Do you see how many businesses are wanting to take part in the natural hair industry? Most of the companies are brick and mortar ones, but there are rising and emerging companies who are black and natural-hair owned. Isn’t that something to celebrate in its own right?! Unique And Special
Today, natural hair is seen as something so unique and special from everyone who passes by. Whether your natural hair is flowing and springy or fluffy and bountiful, natural hair is basically beautiful. People want to touch your hair, talk about your hair, ask you questions about your hair, and even smell your hair (seriously, I had that happen before). Natural hair is something that is praised about and loved on. It seems so new to other cultures and even some of us. Natural hair is the new girl in town and everyone wants a piece of her. Sense Of Freedom And Acceptance
I’m not saying relaxed hair keeps you bound and chained, but it’s something about going natural that makes you feel liberated. It’s your own hair that grows out of your own head and you accept that! Your hair is on the schedule that you set for her and not on another’s time schedule. You give your hair the freedom to frizz as she pleases, fro as she grows, and spring indefinitely. There are no limits to natural hair! Everything can be achieved as long as you accept her. If you make the decision to go natural, make sure that it is your own decision and not anyone pressuring you. Remember that this is your hair and your journey. Make the right choice for you alone.
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Post by Her Highness on Dec 24, 2015 1:38:17 GMT
The Disadvantages of Being Natural. Dun! Dun! Dun!
Source: Tgin
Battling Dryness
Just like you need water for your body, your hair needs it as well. The goal is to maintain the moisture and the state of your hair while its wet. By doing so, you will find out exactly how much moisture is needed for your specific hair type. For women with kinkier hair or small curl patterns, their hair needs more moisture. For women who are Curly Sue’s their hair doesn’t require as much. For more info on battling dryness, click here to read 7 Tips for Kicking Dry Hair to the Curb. Finding the Right Products
Ask any natural, and she’ll tell you it’s all about your hair regimen. It’s your hair’s foundation. You need a strong regimen for your hair to flourish. Your basic hair routine should consist of a cleanser, moisturizer and conditioner. After you’ve designated which day of the week you’re going to devote to your hair, take notice to what your products do to your hair. Does it make your mane tangle? Does it make it frizz up? Does it become unmanageable? Do your products make your hair look like plain Jane? After using these products decide if you need to deep condition your hair, or maybe switch up your moisturizer. There’s a lot of trial and error when it comes to buying products for your natural hair, so if you don’t get it right the first time, no worries. Finding the right hair product is similar to trying to get your driver’s license, who really gets it right the first time? Knowing what the Product Does
Don’t buy a deep conditioner hoping it will act as your cleanser. That’s not what it’s for. Make sure that you’re not swayed by the fancy design and clever marketing of the bottle. Check your cabinet to make sure that you already don’t own the product that you’re buying. Stay away from harsh sulfates. A lot of natural hair products don’t contain lanolin or other products that will cause your hair to sud up quickly like most brands. These chemicals do clean your hair, but strip the hair follicle of its natural moisture, and we don’t want that, now do we? Dealing with Haters
I don’t know your family, your stylist or your girlfriends, but I can already tell you that somebody is going to have something negative to say. When I first went natural, the people closest to me couldn’t understand why I would choose to rock short kinky hair over long bone straight bouncy flowing tresses. I’ve heard it all from my stylist telling that getting a perm would make doing my hair so much easier to people asking me if I was going through something. Sometimes people lash out and make hurtful comments, because they just lack the knowledge about what it is you’re trying to do. Tune them out and keep it moving. I promise half of them will be following in your footsteps once they see how healthy your hair becomes and how much confidence you’ve gained. Staying Focused on Your Hair Goals
One of the biggest challenges to transitioning is being able toto stay focused long enough to see results. Most of us feel excited and motivated when we first set out on this journey, and that feeling can last for several days, or even a few weeks. But then, when we hit a rough sport or don’t see visible progress as quickly as we would like, we being to romanticize the idea of what it was like when we were relaxed and how easy it was to take care of our hair, even though we couldn’t work out, had to spend tons of money on beauty shop appointments, or saw our bathroom floors covered with hair most days. We’ve all been there and wanted to give up at some point or another, but when you take the time to remember the reasons why you wanted to embrace this lifestyle, you will fine it much easier to tune out the distractions and stay focused on the light at the end of the tunnel.
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Post by Her Highness on Dec 24, 2015 1:42:44 GMT
I'm not the "all in natural hair-do" kinda person. I cowash at least once a week and moisturize at least twice a day. I braid when needed and I let it out when I want. My Products: 1. Water (to moisturize hair) 2. Organic extra virgin coconut oil (to seal in moisture/water) 3. Cowash No Sodium Chloride, Sulfates, dyes, harsh salts, Parabens, gluten.
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Post by Her Highness on Dec 24, 2015 1:59:43 GMT
I've been through the storm just to tame my natural. I've spent and overspent on products that just don't work. I've spent hours trying to wash/condition. After a while, I stopped doing so much to it and because i wasn't messing around with my hair, it grew. Natural hair is preferable to me. It's thicker and fuller and fiest! I'll try to share some pictures (not of myself, of course) of the beauty el natural; protective styles and funky style.
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Post by Her Highness on Dec 24, 2015 2:16:41 GMT
100 years of black hairstyles
1910s 1920s 1930s 1940s 1950s 1960s 1970s 1980s 1990s 2000s 2010s
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Post by OmoOba on Dec 24, 2015 7:24:11 GMT
I'm not the "all in natural hair-do" kinda person. I cowash at least once a week and moisturize at least twice a day. I braid when needed and I let it out when I want. My Products: 1. Water (to moisturize hair) 2. Organic extra virgin coconut oil (to seal in moisture/water) 3. Cowash No Sodium Chloride, Sulfates, dyes, harsh salts, Parabens, gluten. I find coconut oil quite drying, so I prefer shea butter.
I still haven't found a perfect detangling method. I tried the finger method and my hair quickly became a matted mess but at the same time it requires low manipulation.
I was so close to relaxing it 3 months ago as I had reached the end of my tether. How do you detangle and how long does it take you?
I have been natural for 6 years and it still takes an hour to detangle
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Post by OmoOba on Dec 24, 2015 7:29:27 GMT
100 years of black hairstyles
1910s 1920s 1930s 1940s 1950s 1960s 1970s 1980s 1990s 2000s 2010s My favourites. What's yours?
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Post by Her Highness on Dec 24, 2015 7:34:31 GMT
I'm not the "all in natural hair-do" kinda person. I cowash at least once a week and moisturize at least twice a day. I braid when needed and I let it out when I want. My Products: 1. Water (to moisturize hair) 2. Organic extra virgin coconut oil (to seal in moisture/water) 3. Cowash No Sodium Chloride, Sulfates, dyes, harsh salts, Parabens, gluten. I find coconut oil quite drying, so I prefer shea butter.
I still haven't found a perfect detangling method. I tried the finger method and my hair quickly became a matted mess but at the same time it requires low manipulation.
I was so close to relaxing it 3 months ago as I had reached the end of my tether. How do you detangle and how long does it take you?
I have been natural for 6 years and it still takes an hour to detangle
I detangle only when my hair is wet (when I'm showering). apply the Shea butter detangle when hair is wet and then comb it out. It works because my hair hardly breaks nowadays. It takes like less than 5 mins. We're not supposed to be combing our hair everyday, 3x a week should do. coconut oil is not a moisturizer, it's a sealant. Shea butter in the other hand, is a moisturizer. You're supposed to use coconut oil to seal the water you spray in your hair cuticles. I dont use natural shea butter anymore cuz I can't stand the strong smell.
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Post by Her Highness on Dec 24, 2015 7:35:49 GMT
I love the 50s, 60s and 2000s lol.
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Post by Her Highness on Dec 24, 2015 23:14:26 GMT
Crotchet Braid
source: XovainWhat the hell are crochet braids? I am glad you asked. As the name suggests, crochet braids are hair extensions that are literally crocheted into your own hair (braided into cornrows) with a latch hook tool. This type of hairstyle has been popular in the black hair community since the '90s. But today’s version is done more creatively--from the type of hair used to installation techniques to styling. Crochet Braid Pros
1. The application process is far quicker than that of a traditional sew-in, box braids, or even twists. 2. There is a minimal stress to your scalp because all you’re doing is looping on synthetic hair onto your already braided hair--no pressure or pulling required, which makes this a great protective style. 3. It looks unbelievably realistic. Like, “I grew this since I was a baby” realistic. Crotchet Braids FAQs
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Post by Her Highness on Dec 24, 2015 23:33:26 GMT
Fast & Easy Protective Styles
Source: BuzzFeedFor the lazy people like moi lolol Cornrows are the classic protective style, but it requires a lot of patience and time mehn. 1. Go classic with a bun. If your hair is fine, you can always stuff your bun with braiding hair for more fullness. 2. Try a roll and tuck. Deep-part your favorite side, and roll your curls upward all the way around. Loosely secure with bobby pins for a romantic touch. 3. A colorful turban is a trendy statement and the answer to giving your hair a break. 4. Wrapping Marley hair around your bun will add fun texture. 5. Can you believe these are clip-ins? If you want freely swinging curls, natural-looking clip extensions are the way to go. 6. Give this cute pompadour a go. Roll and tuck the back, and finish off with a pompadour.
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Post by Her Highness on Dec 24, 2015 23:51:01 GMT
7. Bantu knots adorned with a gold headpiece really add a regal flair. 8. How about some two-strand twists? While your hair is wet, do individual twists with your favorite moisturizing product. 9. Create a loose bun with a few curls left out for an effortless look. Lay those baby hairs for extra fleekage. 10. You can always go with a wig, too, if you really want to rest your curls. 11. Try a chunky bun. Re-create this look by pulling the hair back into a ponytail. Two-strand twist individual sections and then tuck them under the ponytail holder or secure them with pins. 12. Twists with extensions will give you several months of freedom from styling your hair. 13. Single twists can be worn in a bun to switch up your style. 14. Remix the childhood signature Afro puffs and turn them into Afro balls by tucking the ends. 15. And finally, give your hair a rest with a back tuck. Part your hair in the middle and pin a roll in the back.
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Post by Honorebu on Dec 25, 2015 2:21:58 GMT
Her Highness,
I can't see anything but I've reported the issue to Proboards support
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Post by IrekeOnibudo on Dec 25, 2015 10:06:13 GMT
Sista Her Highness , I see all the pics. Not sure how the original problem was been sorted. By the way, fair play to you for going the natural route. I know it can feel solitary, at times, but nothing beats having full control over one's organic self
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