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Post by Ogbeni Ogunnaike on Apr 20, 2016 4:20:36 GMT
Honestly speaking, you can;t know for sure unless you been know am before, abi people tell you.... otherwise you just assume based on the vibes you get from her. Me I was just talking based on how i would feel is someone I knew to be boisterous wanted to fuck me all the time in an early relationship. What's wrong with that? Is there a time restriction on WHEN to ask for frequent sex? it just the course of things...... In an early relationship, most people expect things to start slowly and then become tighter/warm up with time. how can you say you are in an early relationship with someone you are banging 3 times per day?
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Post by Her Highness on Apr 20, 2016 4:21:08 GMT
Lol are you like a romance writer or sth? Flatiron aint my only position tho. If we're doing that position, sounding out his pleasure is important. Or rather, saying naughty stuffs. Do you talk during sex? No be like those guys that won't shut up tho. I don't talk ooo. I make sounds or voices. talking and saying what gan exactly .... ? Some guys like to verify their actions. 'baby do you like when I do that?' 'I'm gonna bla bla bla'. I'm thinking STFU already and take me to heaven.
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Post by colonial pikin on Apr 20, 2016 4:21:12 GMT
I am single at the moment but it has always been both ways.I have no qualms initiating sex or asking for it if I desire it.Frequency depends on level of sexual attraction and emotional attachment.Strong emotional attachment I tend to always want the person,otherwise it's only when I get horny vibes which is no guarantee I will act on it self.I no be like dog sha....I can control my feels. This makes sense a lot. I've been in a relationship where the guy just wants to scatter my vagina. I start feeling used, so I guess I wasn't into him that much. You start feeling like 'damn, you need to see the sex doctor or something'. This goes back to communication . How would you tell him to back off or slow it down without sounding like a nun? colonial pikin , Ogbeni Ogunnaike , Okay what do y'all think about the forbidden fruit....no, not anal..... FWB. Simply ask him to back off or slow it down nicely.No care if I come across as nun...guys done enjoy sex regardless...the onus is on you as a woman to ensure you enjoy it also,otherwise it don't make sense...might as well forfeit sex since yuh pum is just to please him and not yourself also.What's FWB btw?
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Post by colonial pikin on Apr 20, 2016 4:24:06 GMT
Lol are you like a romance writer or sth? Flatiron aint my only position tho. If we're doing that position, sounding out his pleasure is important. Or rather, saying naughty stuffs. Do you talk during sex? No be like those guys that won't shut up tho. I don't talk ooo. I make sounds or voices. talking and saying what gan exactly .... ? Her Highness, is a naija guy thing ...
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Post by Ogbeni Ogunnaike on Apr 20, 2016 4:24:12 GMT
This makes sense a lot. I've been in a relationship where the guy just wants to scatter my vagina. I start feeling used, so I guess I wasn't into him that much. You start feeling like 'damn, you need to see the sex doctor or something'. This goes back to communication . How would you tell him to back off or slow it down without sounding like a nun? colonial pikin , Ogbeni Ogunnaike , Okay what do y'all think about the forbidden fruit....no, not anal..... FWB. Simply ask him to back off or slow it down nicely.No care if I come across as nun...guys done enjoy sex regardless...the onus is on you as a woman to ensure you enjoy it also,otherwise it don't make sense...might as well forfeit sex since yuh pum is just to please him and not yourself also.What's FWB btw? Friends with benefit.... sexfriend kinda thingy. Nos strings attached.
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Post by Her Highness on Apr 20, 2016 4:25:26 GMT
What's wrong with that? Is there a time restriction on WHEN to ask for frequent sex? it just the course of things...... In an early relationship, most people expect things to start slowly and then become tighter/warm up with time. how can you say you are in an early relationship with someone you are banging 3 times per day? Hey the dude might just be so damn good nau. Maybe her sexual level is high and you're doing it for her. I don't think that's sufficient enough a sign to classify her as olosho. An olosho could be fucking another guy behind your back while you're taking it slow.
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Post by colonial pikin on Apr 20, 2016 4:27:25 GMT
Simply ask him to back off or slow it down nicely.No care if I come across as nun...guys done enjoy sex regardless...the onus is on you as a woman to ensure you enjoy it also,otherwise it don't make sense...might as well forfeit sex since yuh pum is just to please him and not yourself also.What's FWB btw? Friends with benefit.... sexfriend kinda thingy. Nos strings attached. hmmmm....so that's a forbidden fruit fuh naija?
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Post by Her Highness on Apr 20, 2016 4:28:15 GMT
This makes sense a lot. I've been in a relationship where the guy just wants to scatter my vagina. I start feeling used, so I guess I wasn't into him that much. You start feeling like 'damn, you need to see the sex doctor or something'. This goes back to communication . How would you tell him to back off or slow it down without sounding like a nun? colonial pikin , Ogbeni Ogunnaike , Okay what do y'all think about the forbidden fruit....no, not anal..... FWB. Simply ask him to back off or slow it down nicely.No care if I come across as nun...guys done enjoy sex regardless...the onus is on you as a woman to ensure you enjoy it also, otherwise it don't make sense...might as well forfeit sex since yuh pum is just to please him and not yourself also.What's FWB btw? Yea, eventually, eventually one withdraws emotionally. Sex withdrawal followed. Friends with benefit.
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Post by Ogbeni Ogunnaike on Apr 20, 2016 4:28:19 GMT
it just the course of things...... In an early relationship, most people expect things to start slowly and then become tighter/warm up with time. how can you say you are in an early relationship with someone you are banging 3 times per day? Hey the dude might just be so damn good nau. Maybe her sexual level is high and you're doing it for her. I don't think that's sufficient enough a sign to classify her as olosho. An olosho could be fucking another guy behind your back while you're taking it slow. loool... okay o, maybe i am too naija.
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Post by Her Highness on Apr 20, 2016 4:28:49 GMT
Friends with benefit.... sexfriend kinda thingy. Nos strings attached. hmmmm....so that's a forbidden fruit fuh naija? Lollll yesssssssssss. Ever been in one?
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Post by colonial pikin on Apr 20, 2016 4:31:12 GMT
hmmmm....so that's a forbidden fruit fuh naija? Lollll yesssssssssss. Ever been in one? hmmmm...make I no comment for we Trinis lol....so why naija see it as a forbidden fruit tho?...just trying to understand y'all logcial.
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Post by Her Highness on Apr 20, 2016 4:32:33 GMT
I don't talk ooo. I make sounds or voices. talking and saying what gan exactly .... ? Her Highness , is a naija guy thing ... OmoAkin sounds sexually open and comfortable with his sexuality, so I doubt he's as boring as the rest of them Naija guys wey no get spice in the bedroom. Being able to openly take about sex and all its delicious aspect is the gateway to sexual literacy.
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Post by Her Highness on Apr 20, 2016 4:35:43 GMT
Lollll yesssssssssss. Ever been in one? hmmmm...make I no comment for we Trinis lol....so why naija see it as a forbidden fruit tho?...just trying to understand y'all logcial. Honestly I don't understand those people. They can pretend!!! Yet they can fuck. They need any reason to call someone ashewo. Having a healthy FWB relationship is asheworsim with them. Hey if I connect emotionally with someone (best friend), what's wrong with satisfying each other? Just because you like someone doesn't mean they'd make the best partners.... It's important to understand that.
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Post by Ogbeni Ogunnaike on Apr 20, 2016 4:38:44 GMT
hmmmm...make I no comment for we Trinis lol....so why naija see it as a forbidden fruit tho?...just trying to understand y'all logcial. Honestly I don't understand those people. They can pretend!!! Yet they can fuck. They need any reason to call someone ashewo. Having a healthy FWB relationship is asheworsim with them. Hey if I connect emotionally with someone (best friend), what's wrong with satisfying each other? Just because you like someone doesn't mean they'd make the best partners.... It's important to understand that. but this FWB thing isn't really a sexual norm in naija, it is seen as promiscuity.
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Post by colonial pikin on Apr 20, 2016 4:42:27 GMT
hmmmm...make I no comment for we Trinis lol....so why naija see it as a forbidden fruit tho?...just trying to understand y'all logcial. Honestly I don't understand those people. They can pretend!!! Yet they can fuck. They need any reason to call someone ashewo. Having a healthy FWB relationship is asheworsim with them. Hey if I connect emotionally with someone (best friend), what's wrong with satisfying each other? Just because you like someone doesn't mean they'd make the best partners.... It's important to understand that. so y'all only condone sex within marriage or I guess proper bf-gf relationships? Regarding your question yes.I think quite a bit Trinis are guilty of it, both in terms of friends with benefits and exs with benefits lol.I don't term it FWB but f***ships because that's the nature of the relationship...you and the person have an understanding to meet each other sexual needs when it's requested lol.I guess we are a promiscuous lot
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