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Post by Shymmex on Jan 22, 2016 14:44:58 GMT
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Post by Shymmex on Jan 22, 2016 14:47:09 GMT
I like this. She's very beautiful and the guy looks a model (Yoruba nyggah's swag lol). A Yoruba nyggah just conquered another high flying damsel in a next man's territory - these Yoruba guys. A lot of nyggahs from that side won't like this. Conquering sons of oduduwa. Her Highness
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Post by Her Highness on Jan 22, 2016 14:52:28 GMT
So what makes her a high flying damsel?
If I marry an Indian now, una go curse me.
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Post by Shymmex on Jan 22, 2016 14:57:24 GMT
So what makes her a high flying damsel? If I marry an Indian now, una go curse me. C'mon now. She's highly educated and she's Chiwetel Ejiofor's sister. And she's from Peckham. I honestly don't think Yoruba guys in general care about who Yoruba chics marry...we're not that insecure since there are just so many territories to conquer. Personally, I'd bless ya union with an Indian guy, to be honest. At least you'll spread the tentacles of Yoruba culture all the way to India. Perhaps, it's cos I'm always around folks who married out. Almost all my uncles and male cousins married out...so it's just normal to me.
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Post by Her Highness on Jan 22, 2016 15:03:20 GMT
So what makes her a high flying damsel? If I marry an Indian now, una go curse me. C'mon now. She's highly educated and she's Chiwetel Ejiofor's sister. And she's from Peckham. I honestly don't think Yoruba guys in general care about who Yoruba chics marry...we're not that insecure since there are just so many territories to conquer. Personally, I'd bless ya union with an Indian guy, to be honest. At least you'll spread the tentacles of Yoruba culture all the way to India. Perhaps, it's cos I'm always around folks who married out. Almost all my uncles and male cousins married out...so it's just normal to me. You seem open minded about it, majority of Nigerians aren't. Lots of educated chics out there. So she's just one of the few abeg. I don't care about who married who, but in the case of splitting Nigeria neatly, I'm going to need this intertribal love to halt until we split and have established rules of residency/citizenship in Yorubaland lolololol.
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Post by Shymmex on Jan 22, 2016 15:26:00 GMT
C'mon now. She's highly educated and she's Chiwetel Ejiofor's sister. And she's from Peckham. I honestly don't think Yoruba guys in general care about who Yoruba chics marry...we're not that insecure since there are just so many territories to conquer. Personally, I'd bless ya union with an Indian guy, to be honest. At least you'll spread the tentacles of Yoruba culture all the way to India. Perhaps, it's cos I'm always around folks who married out. Almost all my uncles and male cousins married out...so it's just normal to me. You seem open minded about it, majority of Nigerians aren't. Lots of educated chics out there. So she's just one of the few abeg. I don't care about who married who, but in the case of splitting Nigeria neatly, I'm going to need this intertribal love to halt until we split and have established rules of residency/citizenship in Yorubaland lolololol. Lol. Nigerians are just hypocrites. The same naija chics that're probably mad about Yoruba guys marrying outside of the group are the same ones who most likely had Igbo bfs in the past and had their P smashed to smithereens by Igbo guys. However, cos it didn't work out, they're out there hating on those who're able to find love and happiness from the other side. And vice versa for the guys who dwell on frivolities. Marrying outside ya group doesn't necessarily mean folks have to live in the same country. There are gazillion of Nigerians married to Ghanaians, Sierra Leoneans, and Jamaicans. Does that mean Nigeria and Ghana have to become one country cos of that? At the end of the day, majority of folks are still going to marry within their respective groups...but those who're able to find happiness, love, and the right partner outside the group shouldn't be denied the opportunity to do so. Anyway, cos there are loads of educated chics out there, that doesn't negate the fact that she's a high flyer. And she's very beautiful. Proud of the Yoruba guy that conquered her.
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Post by Her Highness on Jan 22, 2016 15:47:17 GMT
You seem open minded about it, majority of Nigerians aren't. Lots of educated chics out there. So she's just one of the few abeg. I don't care about who married who, but in the case of splitting Nigeria neatly, I'm going to need this intertribal love to halt until we split and have established rules of residency/citizenship in Yorubaland lolololol. Lol. Nigerians are just hypocrites. The same naija chics that're probably mad about Yoruba guys marrying outside of the group are the same ones who most likely had Igbo bfs in the past and had their P smashed to smithereens by Igbo guys. However, cos it didn't work out, they're out there hating on those who're able to find love and happiness from the other side. And vice versa for the guys who dwell on frivolities. Marrying outside ya group doesn't necessarily mean folks have to live in the same country. There are gazillion of Nigerians married to Ghanaians, Sierra Leoneans, and Jamaicans. Does that mean Nigeria and Ghana have to become one country cos of that? At the end of the day, majority of folks are still going to marry within their respective groups...but those who're able to find happiness, love, and the right partner outside the group shouldn't be denied the opportunity to do so. Anyway, cos there are loads of educated chics out there, that doesn't negate the fact that she's a high flyer. And she's very beautiful. Proud of the Yoruba guy that conquered her. I understand what you mean, but the country you listed already established their citizenship/residency requirements. We haven't......if we're talking about a Yotubalanc solely controlled by Yorubas, then this is a conversation to be had. By rate this is going, splitting Nigeria won't be an easy task. You'll have an Igbo country made up if 90% igbos and a Yoruba country made up of 60% Yorubas. 100years from now, they'll be telling you lies on how they develop your country or how their people are natives in your country.
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Post by Shymmex on Jan 22, 2016 15:57:25 GMT
Lol. Nigerians are just hypocrites. The same naija chics that're probably mad about Yoruba guys marrying outside of the group are the same ones who most likely had Igbo bfs in the past and had their P smashed to smithereens by Igbo guys. However, cos it didn't work out, they're out there hating on those who're able to find love and happiness from the other side. And vice versa for the guys who dwell on frivolities. Marrying outside ya group doesn't necessarily mean folks have to live in the same country. There are gazillion of Nigerians married to Ghanaians, Sierra Leoneans, and Jamaicans. Does that mean Nigeria and Ghana have to become one country cos of that? At the end of the day, majority of folks are still going to marry within their respective groups...but those who're able to find happiness, love, and the right partner outside the group shouldn't be denied the opportunity to do so. Anyway, cos there are loads of educated chics out there, that doesn't negate the fact that she's a high flyer. And she's very beautiful. Proud of the Yoruba guy that conquered her. I understand what you mean, but the country you listed already established their citizenship/residency requirements. We haven't......if we're talking about a Yotubalanc solely controlled by Yorubas, then this is a conversation to be had. By rate this is going, splitting Nigeria won't be an easy task. You'll have an Igbo country made up if 90% igbos and a Yoruba country made up of 60% Yorubas. 100years from now, they'll be telling you lies on how they develop your country or how their people are natives in your country. But Yoruba culture is patrilineal...so it won't change anything. And the average Yoruba guy, regardless of who he's married to is always proud of his Yoruba heritage. Also most women from other cultures married to Yoruba men always embrace Yoruba culture. Let folks mingle and conquer far and wide.
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Post by Her Highness on Jan 22, 2016 16:07:57 GMT
I understand what you mean, but the country you listed already established their citizenship/residency requirements. We haven't......if we're talking about a Yotubalanc solely controlled by Yorubas, then this is a conversation to be had. By rate this is going, splitting Nigeria won't be an easy task. You'll have an Igbo country made up if 90% igbos and a Yoruba country made up of 60% Yorubas. 100years from now, they'll be telling you lies on how they develop your country or how their people are natives in your country. But Yoruba culture is patrilineal...so it won't change anything. And the average Yoruba guy, regardless of who he's married to is always proud of his Yoruba heritage. Also most women from other cultures married to Yoruba men always embrace Yoruba culture. Let folks mingle and conquer far and wide. Not nowadays when everybody and their mama hates/are afraid of Yorubas. Also, children are more affiliated with their mother's heritage i.e Me. Anyway we shall see.
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Post by Shymmex on Jan 22, 2016 16:19:55 GMT
But Yoruba culture is patrilineal...so it won't change anything. And the average Yoruba guy, regardless of who he's married to is always proud of his Yoruba heritage. Also most women from other cultures married to Yoruba men always embrace Yoruba culture. Let folks mingle and conquer far and wide. Not nowadays when everybody and their mama hates/are afraid of Yorubas. Also, children are more affiliated with their mother's heritage i.e Me. Anyway we shall see. How so? One of my exes is half-Ijebu and half-DeltaIgbo, and though her dad was never really in their lives - she and her siblings align with the Yoruba side. Heck, every time I tease her about being Igbo - she always reject it. Even her mum acts more Yoruba than Igbo. I've got cousins who're half-Jamaicans and they don't care too tough about their Jamaican side. Even for me, though I'm closer to my mum's family (especially the Egba side [maternal]) than my dad's - I'm more affiliated to the Ijebu heritage. Ditto all my siblings.
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Post by Her Highness on Jan 22, 2016 16:27:16 GMT
Not nowadays when everybody and their mama hates/are afraid of Yorubas. Also, children are more affiliated with their mother's heritage i.e Me. Anyway we shall see. How so? One of my exes is half-Ijebu and half-DeltaIgbo, and though her dad was never really in their lives - she and her siblings align with the Yoruba side. Heck, every time I tease her about being Igbo - she always reject it. Even her mum acts more Yoruba than Igbo. I've got cousins who're half-Jamaicans and they don't care too tough about their Jamaican side. Even for me, though I'm closer to my mum's family (especially the Egba side [maternal]) than my dad's - I'm more affiliated to the Ijebu heritage. Ditto all my siblings. You're choosing the "better" side. Why? Because our mothers raise us, spends most time with us, loves us more. Iya ni wura. You often spend more time with your mom's side of the family. I grew up learning my mom's dialect, dressing like her, acting like her, and even aspired to be a wonderful mother like her. The mother-child bond is more close knitted than the father-child bond, especially since Yoruba fathers are strict.
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Post by Shymmex on Jan 22, 2016 17:23:35 GMT
How so? One of my exes is half-Ijebu and half-DeltaIgbo, and though her dad was never really in their lives - she and her siblings align with the Yoruba side. Heck, every time I tease her about being Igbo - she always reject it. Even her mum acts more Yoruba than Igbo. I've got cousins who're half-Jamaicans and they don't care too tough about their Jamaican side. Even for me, though I'm closer to my mum's family (especially the Egba side [maternal]) than my dad's - I'm more affiliated to the Ijebu heritage. Ditto all my siblings. You're choosing the "better" side. Why? Because our mothers raise us, spends most time with us, loves us more. Iya ni wura. You often spend more time with your mom's side of the family. I grew up learning my mom's dialect, dressing like her, acting like her, and even aspired to be a wonderful mother like her. The mother-child bond is more close knitted than the father-child bond, especially since Yoruba fathers are strict. Nah, I'm not choosing the "better" side. There's no "better" side. I love my Egba side to death. However, I can't deny who I'm cos the culture is patrilineal and I've to stay true to my roots. I'm an Ijebu guy. My connection with my mum has to do with the fact that I'm always subconsciously attracted to chics with the same temperament as my mum or chics I can see my mum in. Apart from that, I've to roll with who I'm. Anyway, since you believe in the mother-child bond being more important when it comes to identity - how come Igbo guys/chics with Yoruba mums aren't aligning more with their Yoruba side? Just know that there are loads of Yoruba guys out there who don't feel any connection whatsoever with most Yoruba chics and can't relate to them. So you can't deny them their happiness, if they happen to feel more connected to Igbo chics or chics from other groups/nationalities/races. People have a right to be happy.
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Post by Her Highness on Jan 22, 2016 17:43:21 GMT
You're choosing the "better" side. Why? Because our mothers raise us, spends most time with us, loves us more. Iya ni wura. You often spend more time with your mom's side of the family. I grew up learning my mom's dialect, dressing like her, acting like her, and even aspired to be a wonderful mother like her. The mother-child bond is more close knitted than the father-child bond, especially since Yoruba fathers are strict. Nah, I'm not choosing the "better" side. There's no "better" side. I love my Egba side to death. However, I can't deny who I'm cos the culture is patrilineal and I've to stay true to my roots. I'm an Ijebu guy. My connection with my mum has to do with the fact that I'm always subconsciously attracted to chics with the same temperament as my mum or chics I can see my mum in. Apart from that, I've to roll with who I'm. Anyway, since you believe in the mother-child bond being more important when it comes to identity - how come Igbo guys/chics with Yoruba mums aren't aligning more with their Yoruba side? Just know that there are loads of Yoruba guys out there who don't feel any connection whatsoever with most Yoruba chics and can't relate to them. So you can't deny them their happiness, if they happen to feel more connected to Igbo chics or chics from other groups/nationalities/races. People have a right to be happy. It's only Yoruba guys that'd claim to not have affinity for Yoruba girls....and all in the name of what? Igbo girls, even tho they're more attracted to non-Igbo guys wouldn't claim such. On NL, you've given igbos the right to taunt and insult Yoruba girls. But it's your opinion and I can't do anything about it. I will say this tho, no matter how I feel about Yoruba men, I will never devalue them in contrast to another tribe/race. As per the bold, I've seen the opposite, but then, there aren't much cases of Yoruba women marrying Igbo men.
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Post by Shymmex on Jan 22, 2016 18:00:27 GMT
Nah, I'm not choosing the "better" side. There's no "better" side. I love my Egba side to death. However, I can't deny who I'm cos the culture is patrilineal and I've to stay true to my roots. I'm an Ijebu guy. My connection with my mum has to do with the fact that I'm always subconsciously attracted to chics with the same temperament as my mum or chics I can see my mum in. Apart from that, I've to roll with who I'm. Anyway, since you believe in the mother-child bond being more important when it comes to identity - how come Igbo guys/chics with Yoruba mums aren't aligning more with their Yoruba side? Just know that there are loads of Yoruba guys out there who don't feel any connection whatsoever with most Yoruba chics and can't relate to them. So you can't deny them their happiness, if they happen to feel more connected to Igbo chics or chics from other groups/nationalities/races. People have a right to be happy. It's only Yoruba guys that'd claim to not have affinity for Yoruba girls....and all in the name of what? Igbo girls, even tho they're more attracted to non-Igbo guys wouldn't claim such. On NL, you've given igbos the right to taunt and insult Yoruba girls. But it's your opinion and I can't do anything about it. I will say this tho, no matter how I feel about Yoruba men, I will never devalue them in contrast to another tribe/race. As per the bold, I've seen the opposite, but then, there aren't much cases of Yoruba women marrying Igbo men. How did Yoruba guys give Igbos the right to taunt and insult Yoruba girls on NL, when most Yoruba chics on NL are the ones who're always chasing Igbo guys around and pleading with them? You just want Yoruba guys to defend Yoruba chics all the time - but ain't no Yoruba guy got time for that, though I've defended Yoruba women a few times on NL. I don't care about frivolities but there are loads of Yoruba guys out there with no affinity whatsoever with Yoruba chics. And even when they try, it's just never there. I know a lot of folks like that. Heck, even your Ekiti brothers, ekt_bear and 2legit2qwt used to allude to the same thing on NL. It's either you click/connect with folks or you don't. You can't force what isn't there Personally, I just don't connect with naija chics (though my level on patience varies from group to group) in general like that cos they'll always do/say something that will piss me off and their mentality isn't the type of mentality I want to be around 24/7. It's all about being true to yourself and keeping it real, without trying to put them down. That doesn't mean folks don't appreciate Yoruba women for their achievements and how great they're. Well, the fact that you've seen the opposite also shows that ya hypothesis is wrong. Also, didn't you allude to ya Ibadan friend being half-Hausa? How come she aligns with her Yoruba side than the Hausa side?
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Post by Her Highness on Jan 22, 2016 18:11:39 GMT
It's only Yoruba guys that'd claim to not have affinity for Yoruba girls....and all in the name of what? Igbo girls, even tho they're more attracted to non-Igbo guys wouldn't claim such. On NL, you've given igbos the right to taunt and insult Yoruba girls. But it's your opinion and I can't do anything about it. I will say this tho, no matter how I feel about Yoruba men, I will never devalue them in contrast to another tribe/race. As per the bold, I've seen the opposite, but then, there aren't much cases of Yoruba women marrying Igbo men. How did Yoruba guys give Igbos the right to taunt and insult Yoruba girls on NL, when most Yoruba chics on NL are the ones who're always chasing Igbo guys around and pleading with them? You just want Yoruba guys to defend Yoruba chics all the time - but ain't no Yoruba guy got time for that, though I've defended Yoruba women a few times on NL. I don't care about frivolities but there are loads of Yoruba guys out there with no affinity whatsoever with Yoruba chics. And even when they try, it's just never there. I know a lot of folks like that. Heck, even your Ekiti brothers, ekt_bear and 2legit2qwt used to allude to the same thing on NL. It's either you click/connect with folks or you don't. You can't force what isn't there Personally, I just don't connect with naija chics (though my level on patience varies from group to group) in general like that cos they'll always do/say something that will piss me off and their mentality isn't the type of mentality I want to be around 24/7. It's all about being true to yourself and keeping it real, without trying to put them down. That doesn't mean folks don't appreciate Yoruba women for their achievements and how great they're. Well, the fact that you've seen the opposite also shows that ya hypothesis is wrong. Also, didn't you allude to ya Ibadan friend being half-Hausa? How come she aligns with her Yoruba side than the Hausa side? I'm talking about you specifically. Many of your posts have been used as a verification standard against Yoruba girls. If you still don't understand, then let's end this conversation here. Im not asking for your defense, but if all you'be got are negative comments, then keep that to yourself. I don't see white men taking up arms to against their women.I don't see Igbo or Hausa men doing it either. I guess that's what makes Yorubas sophisticated. Like OmoAkin stated, they've began the gender war between Yorubas. Once you don't value what you have, divide and conquer is imminent. I don't know about ekt_bear, but I know 2legit personally and that's not his mentality. Even then, I don't see him going around telling the world how Yoruba girls are of lesser value. Look it is what it is. Like every tribe out there, Yoruba men have their flaws. I'd still stake my tent with them, o son of Israel.
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